It's Not All About You

The title of this blog is “it’s not all about you!” What? Does that seem right?  It should be all about us, but the reality is, that’s it’s not and it shouldn’t be.  We live in a very self-centered society where personal gain is the priority.  However, Jesus lived by another set of rules.

 

Matthew 20:28 says that “the Son of Man (Jesus) did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give his life a ransom for many.” This is how we need to approach life.  We should always be looking for ways to serve others, to bless others, and to give to others.  As we focus on serving others, God will take care of our needs. “Acts 20:35 says that “it is more blessed to give than to receive” and it’s true.  Not only is there satisfaction in giving to others but God blesses us for blessing others.  It’s a win-win!

When God gave the Ten Commandments, he began with loving God and loving your neighbor.  This order was established so that we could give priority to our creator and so that we could be a blessing to others.  Matthew 6:33 says: “seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.” In others words, seek him and his way of doing things and he’ll take care of everything else that you need.

We all have a sphere of influence.  Whether it’s at work, with our family, our community, etc…To be a blessing to others and live out the example Jesus left for us, we must begin with humility.  Ken Blanchard and Phil Hodges in their book Lead Like Jesus said: “The humility that Jesus demonstrated did not arise from lack of self-esteem, love, power, or ability.  His humility came from the fact that he knew who he was, where he came from, where he was going, and whose he was.  That permitted him to treat people with love and respect.” In such a way, we need to know that we are children of God, created by him and for his purpose.  And part of that purpose, is to be a blessing to others.  “You are called to be a good steward of your season of influence in service to a plan that was set in motion before you came on the scene.  Your influence will extend beyond your exit in the hearts and minds of those entrusted to your care.” (Blanchard and Hodges)

Take notice of your sphere of influence and live according to Jesus’ standards.  Be a blessing to those entrusted to your care. Because it’s not all about you, it’s about others!