Our households become a unit of family where we should
instill love, belonging, integrity, respect, and responsibility. As providers for our home, it is our main
responsibility to show our children all of these actions at a young age. A way to show them responsibility is by including them in
everyday routines. A good age to begin this
is about 4. At this age, children are learning
and are eager to help out when needed. Allowing your child to participate in daily
chores will provide them with a type of structure and sense of responsibility
throughout their day/week. Remember to:
1. Always praise him or her for a job well
done
2. Give your child a sense of independence
3. Let go and let them help
Things might not get done in the
perfect way you want them to be done, but they'll get done. Show your
child the process of the chores at first. The second time around, guide them through
it. By the third time, they should be
pros. J
Here is a way to help
your child be consistent with their chores:
Chores Chart
Pictures for the Tabs
The idea is
to laminate them, make Velcro tabs for the pictures, and each week change
up the chores. The ones that I think the child should focus on are placed on
the chart. Mom’s, you can change and add
to it in order to fit your needs.
I tried
this with my daughter and she can’t wait until she gets home to do her
chores. The mornings are so much more
manageable because she knows what is expected of her. She enjoys putting away the dishes and
sorting and folding laundry. I am not kidding!
She actually got mad at me when I told her she didn’t have to fold her
laundry. Lol!
So get started, and create stability and
responsibility through daily chores. Let me know how it goes!
P.S. These charts will be available on our Facebook page.
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